C is for Community

I thought I was going to have a post before I left for my Imbolc retreat, but I'm really glad I didn't.  You see, I was at a loss as what to write and I would have grabbed a "C" concept or two and just put something down.  I can put random things in this blog all I want in an effort to make myself write regularly.  However, I am finding that less than fulfilling.  So, in that spirit, here is what I really -want- to say, late thought it may be.

I love my community.  I can see that it has its divisions and where it could be better and all those things.  But this last weekend, I got to go to the ADF Central Region Imbolc retreat.  I might also add that I've been added to the planning group for next year's retreat.  Yes, we've already begun and quite well.  I've been to retreats.  I've had mountain top experiences.  But I find that these fade quickly and leave very little when they do. 

The initial rush has faded now.  Is there nothing left?  No, I am still filled, but with something new: I finally have a true sense of community.  It's something more than a circle of friends, something more like a family.  We have Druids, Wiccans, even a Christian or two.  This setup can actually work!

So this brings me to HOW it can work.  We should look at what we label and why we label.  Just because I consider myself a monist, doesn't mean that your hard polytheism is invalid.  It just doesn't work for me.  Worship, reverence, offerings... these are all intensely personal things to consider.  What you believe about them is really not my business, and if you decide to share your views with me, I am honored.  But if they differ from mine, it is no affront to me and my own beliefs.  You are not me and we may not even worship the same deities.  So how do my beliefs threaten your religious practice.  Wars have been fought over this and less.

But enough of the ranting.  Let's take these thoughts and turn them outward.  Let us strengthen and build our community, because it is a family.  A family of choice - there should be room at the table for all of us.

Candlemas, Cleansing and Craft Names

Thank goodness for Candlemas!  I went out to the grovestead tonight to participate in a little potluck and Candlemas goodness.  I love this group of people.  I cannot even begin to express how wonderful it is to have found people that are all so different in the expression of their paths but still manage to work so well together.  Good people, good wine, bardic circle... a good day and restorative to my soul.

Yesterday I attended a Candlemas of a different sort.  I participate in a medieval historical society (SCA) and yesterday was our Candlemas event.  I was asked to create an award for our arts exhibit and it was well received.   My darling was with me attending his first event and entered -and won!- the brewing competition.  Feasting by candlelight and lots of fun.

I have been taking some very serious courses at school these days.  One of them makes me feel like I'm working on not just my mind, but my soul.  I feel introspective but activated, cleansed and invigorated.

With all this introspection, I find myself wondering if keeping a my craft name is necessary or even wise.  What do I need to consider?  Do I even really *care* what my non-pagan family and friends think?  How will this impact me as a counseling professional later down the line?  So many questions....